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June 4, 2011 at 10:46 pm · Reply
I think part of it is because I’m super competitive…for a lot of my life, I was always looking to out-do a lot of the people I met, in whatever aspect. This had it’s advantages, as it always pushed me to succeed, but definitely created a sort of adversarial role with a lot of people, and it’s hard to connect with people when you see them as an adversary. For the last 4-5 years I’d say, I’ve been really working on turning that competitive drive inward, focusing less on trying to beat other people, and more on beating my own previous standards, while viewing other people sort of like teammates or comrades going through similar struggles trying to make themselves shine. This has helped a lot of my relationships tremendously, but I still need to work on this belief everyday, cause it’s easy for me to get sucked into my old way of behaving.
Geert
June 4, 2011 at 11:00 pm · Reply
I can definetly relate to this one.
There were some times in my life where I wasn’t trying to play according to the rules.
But on the other hand, I’m not naive anymore. I also know that there are people who will take advantage of you.
It’s a struggle sometimes for me: knowing when to help someone and when to withold information.
Fruitpapje
June 5, 2011 at 1:08 am · Reply
Hey Mark is it true that you are writing a book on pickup based on psychology research and studies? when will you finish this book?
Mark
June 5, 2011 at 2:05 am · Reply
I’m almost done with the first draft. So hopefully I’ll have it launched by the end of the month.
Axel
June 5, 2011 at 1:00 pm · Reply
You mentioned it will be targeted at the mainstream audience? So will it be available online or in a bookstore?
